What do you want most in a friend?
Friendship is defined as a relationship among people; there are involved words such as: love, trust, and many others but to find a good friend these days is a really hard task because of the hypocrisy and unknown reasons to make a friendship with you.
Well, in my specific case what I look in a friend is reliability, which is the most important quality or aspect for me because if I wanted to have a clown beside me, I would go to a freaking circus or in the case of intelligent people I would go to…I do not know, maybe the NASA; my point is I just want normal friends, regular people just like you, like me, like everyone, but, trustable people, in which I can count in the good and bad times also, people from I can get a good advice and so on.
Nowadays people just do not care about this, how I said they are looking for something else, they gave you a fake friendship expecting something back from you; that is why I think the other two options whose are Intelligence and Sense of humor take a less importance because it is like: I am your friend because you are funny and you make me laugh or you are so intelligent so you can help me with my exams or my home works; no, that is bullshit, that is what I call “Convenience friendship” and that is not ethic at all.
So, my dear “friends”, if you are looking for good friend “reliability” is the word you have to keep in mind and make sure this friend do not be a freaking goddamned asshole that just want to make benefit from you.
I think that Julian´s answer was really straight because he wrote what he thought about friendship describing situations which are reasonable and of course he hit the point.
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